Common & Laura Dern

Common Mistakes We Make in Dating

Common (the rapper who somehow became the voice for seemingly every commercial on TV) is reportedly dating Laura Dern. Now, I had no idea who Laura Dern is. I honestly had to Google her. But that’s not the point. The point is the headline for the article I linked above: ‘She’s having fun and seeing […]

locked away

Being Locked Away: The Major Fear of a Man in Relationships

One day, out of no where, I got locked away. In Miami, with no family, I called the only person I could call: the woman I had been dating for a few weeks. That was a fearsome call. You see, we had just met and she had quickly become special to me. After years of […]

Break Free from Bad Relationships

How to Break Free from Bad Relationships

Have you ever been in a relationship you absolutely knew was bad, but couldn’t break free? I know I have. I remember how it feels: you’re not happy…you feel belittled, taken for granted, mistreated, under appreciated, etc. But you can’t end the relationship. You come close to doing it. Maybe even you pull the trigger […]

single women over 40

Single Women Over 40: Baddest on the Planet?

Kenya Moore seems to think so. Here’s a bit of what she said: You own who you are, you have so much confidence. You’re in a place where you have a career, you have a place, you have money, at this point you should be successful. The problem with this statement is that once you […]

Ray Rice

Ray Rice, the NFL and America’s Culture of Domestic Violence

I took some time before stepping into the Ray Rice fray. I think it’s quite unfortunate how we have viewed this incident and how we (i.e. Society) have victimized Janay Rice, against her will. Let me be clear: I do not condone what we saw in the video, and I do not make any excuses […]